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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 09:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Employment concern]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-399.html</link>
			<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 20:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I would like to know if I can be sacked from my job if I disclose to my employer I have Aspergers. I'm so worried and nervous everytime I see my manager, my worry may provoke a question as to whats wrong and i can't lie.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I would like to know if I can be sacked from my job if I disclose to my employer I have Aspergers. I'm so worried and nervous everytime I see my manager, my worry may provoke a question as to whats wrong and i can't lie.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[New to forum and Aspergers]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-398.html</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 17:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi <br />
I'm Sue, mom to Holly and Luke, wife to Paul.<br />
Luke has just been diagnosed with Aspergers syndrome, he's 7. Taken 2 years to get to where we are now.<br />
Feeling totally overwhelmed by all that we've been through and yet to get through, more assessments for ADHD and dyspraxia.<br />
Thought it would help getting help and support from other parents with children with aspergers and hopefully give help back<br />
<br />
Sue]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi <br />
I'm Sue, mom to Holly and Luke, wife to Paul.<br />
Luke has just been diagnosed with Aspergers syndrome, he's 7. Taken 2 years to get to where we are now.<br />
Feeling totally overwhelmed by all that we've been through and yet to get through, more assessments for ADHD and dyspraxia.<br />
Thought it would help getting help and support from other parents with children with aspergers and hopefully give help back<br />
<br />
Sue]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[PARTICIPANTS NEEDED FOR RESEARCH ABOUT SOCIAL INFORMATION PROCESSING]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-397.html</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 17:26:03 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;">A doctoral researcher at the University of Manchester is looking for people with Asperger Syndrome to take part in a new study. The research aims to investigate the way that people with a diagnosis of Asperger Syndrome (AS) manage social information and whether they differ from people without AS on tasks that measure different types of social information processing. <br />
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For example, one task will examine the way participants recognise emotions in facial expressions, a second task will test whether people ‘jump to conclusions’ when making decisions in social situations. In another task participants will be presented with a number of different short stories about social situations followed by questions about the intentions of the people in them. <br />
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Some previous research has suggested that factors such as self-consciousness or social anxiety, and low-mood might affect the way an individual copes with social information. Therefore, the current study will also investigate whether there are links between these things.  <br />
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Anyone with a diagnosis of AS, above the age of 16, can take part  - you do not necessarily need to have experienced any of the above problems.<br />
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Participants will be asked to fill in some questionnaires online (or paper) and will then meet with the researcher to carry out the experimental tasks. All results will be confidential. The researcher will arrange a place to meet that is convenient to you and you will be reimbursed for any travel expenses. <br />
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If you would like further information and might be interested in taking part, please email Claire Jansch at claire.jansch@postgrad.manchester.ac.uk or call The Division of Clinical Psychology on 0161 306 0400 and leave your contact details and she will get back to you. <br />
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NOTE: This project has been approved by the School of Psychological Sciences Research Ethics Committee (ref 594/07P) at the University of Manchester</span></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-size: medium;">A doctoral researcher at the University of Manchester is looking for people with Asperger Syndrome to take part in a new study. The research aims to investigate the way that people with a diagnosis of Asperger Syndrome (AS) manage social information and whether they differ from people without AS on tasks that measure different types of social information processing. <br />
<br />
For example, one task will examine the way participants recognise emotions in facial expressions, a second task will test whether people ‘jump to conclusions’ when making decisions in social situations. In another task participants will be presented with a number of different short stories about social situations followed by questions about the intentions of the people in them. <br />
<br />
Some previous research has suggested that factors such as self-consciousness or social anxiety, and low-mood might affect the way an individual copes with social information. Therefore, the current study will also investigate whether there are links between these things.  <br />
<br />
Anyone with a diagnosis of AS, above the age of 16, can take part  - you do not necessarily need to have experienced any of the above problems.<br />
<br />
Participants will be asked to fill in some questionnaires online (or paper) and will then meet with the researcher to carry out the experimental tasks. All results will be confidential. The researcher will arrange a place to meet that is convenient to you and you will be reimbursed for any travel expenses. <br />
<br />
If you would like further information and might be interested in taking part, please email Claire Jansch at claire.jansch@postgrad.manchester.ac.uk or call The Division of Clinical Psychology on 0161 306 0400 and leave your contact details and she will get back to you. <br />
<br />
______________________________________________________________________<br />
NOTE: This project has been approved by the School of Psychological Sciences Research Ethics Committee (ref 594/07P) at the University of Manchester</span></span>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[University]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-396.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 10:18:23 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Could anyone please give me any idea of any kind of help an aspie should expect help with at University if any?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Could anyone please give me any idea of any kind of help an aspie should expect help with at University if any?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Penpal needed]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-395.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 23:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[<span style="font-family: Tahoma;">Hello I'm Natalie just turned 14 and I was diagnosed with aspergers as a toddler. I go to a school where noone understands me and they all treat me badly. I'm so lonely and need to talk to someone who understands what I'm going through either by snail mail or MSN. Thank you</span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<span style="font-family: Tahoma;">Hello I'm Natalie just turned 14 and I was diagnosed with aspergers as a toddler. I go to a school where noone understands me and they all treat me badly. I'm so lonely and need to talk to someone who understands what I'm going through either by snail mail or MSN. Thank you</span>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[hi]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-394.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 13:58:42 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hello everyone. My partner has been assessed by one of the leading aspergers specialists in the country as having aspergers.  It was through reading up on this site, and understanding a little more about aspergers, that kind of cushioned the blow!! Within a couple of weeks it was sugested he showed traits, and was then diagnosed.  He is still a bit shell shocked, but your experiences on here have helped me to understand it more and therefore prepared us both for the possibility of a positive diagnosis.  I just want to say a huge thankyou, and I look forward to interacting and learning even more on this site.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hello everyone. My partner has been assessed by one of the leading aspergers specialists in the country as having aspergers.  It was through reading up on this site, and understanding a little more about aspergers, that kind of cushioned the blow!! Within a couple of weeks it was sugested he showed traits, and was then diagnosed.  He is still a bit shell shocked, but your experiences on here have helped me to understand it more and therefore prepared us both for the possibility of a positive diagnosis.  I just want to say a huge thankyou, and I look forward to interacting and learning even more on this site.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Mythical friends]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-393.html</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 11:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Does anyone here have friends?  What is it like?<br />
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Most of the time I'm perfectly happy on my own especially as I find talking to people face to face really hard. But sometimes, it would be nice to meet and talk to someone.<br />
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Over the years, people have told me that I can be embarrassing in social situations either by making not-funny jokes or "by the way I say things".  And guess What? It is a real effort to look anyone in the eye so I come across as shifty or uninterested when I talk to someone and I'm actually looking at a corner of the room.<br />
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Not being able to "read" what other people are thinking doesn't help either.  Sometimes, I say something and have no idea whether the person I'm talking to finds it interesting or boring.  I might as well being talking to myself for all the feedback I'm getting Given what I have been told about my social skills, I assume boring and quickly get discouraged.<br />
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Body language?  Dunno what you mean.<br />
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So, I've kinda withdrawn from being with people.  Which means that I don't really have anything to share. So I just potter my own way but I look at other people sometimes and wonder what it's like to be social.<br />
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BTW, I've no idea why I've just written the above.  A compulsion to post on this site probably.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Does anyone here have friends?  What is it like?<br />
<br />
Most of the time I'm perfectly happy on my own especially as I find talking to people face to face really hard. But sometimes, it would be nice to meet and talk to someone.<br />
<br />
Over the years, people have told me that I can be embarrassing in social situations either by making not-funny jokes or "by the way I say things".  And guess What? It is a real effort to look anyone in the eye so I come across as shifty or uninterested when I talk to someone and I'm actually looking at a corner of the room.<br />
<br />
Not being able to "read" what other people are thinking doesn't help either.  Sometimes, I say something and have no idea whether the person I'm talking to finds it interesting or boring.  I might as well being talking to myself for all the feedback I'm getting Given what I have been told about my social skills, I assume boring and quickly get discouraged.<br />
<br />
Body language?  Dunno what you mean.<br />
<br />
So, I've kinda withdrawn from being with people.  Which means that I don't really have anything to share. So I just potter my own way but I look at other people sometimes and wonder what it's like to be social.<br />
<br />
BTW, I've no idea why I've just written the above.  A compulsion to post on this site probably.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[How do you deal with lazy?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-391.html</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 06:10:05 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[We aren't really taught in school how to motivate ourselves, so it's a skill we have to learn, and especially in the new economy where most of us are going to be self-employed (and to survive, we're going to have to be able to motivate ourselves to find customers and get our work done on time, since there will be no one there to remind us of what will happen if we don't) - given that, I suppose what you have to do is make yourself little promises - if I work for four hours, I can go for lunch at my favorite take-out. Things like that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[We aren't really taught in school how to motivate ourselves, so it's a skill we have to learn, and especially in the new economy where most of us are going to be self-employed (and to survive, we're going to have to be able to motivate ourselves to find customers and get our work done on time, since there will be no one there to remind us of what will happen if we don't) - given that, I suppose what you have to do is make yourself little promises - if I work for four hours, I can go for lunch at my favorite take-out. Things like that.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Family]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-390.html</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 15:46:42 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I am an adult with AS. I come from a big family and I hardly get on with any of them at all any more. I want to make things better between them, but they all want different things from me. How do you manage different people's conflicting needs and making a life of your own all at the same time?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I am an adult with AS. I come from a big family and I hardly get on with any of them at all any more. I want to make things better between them, but they all want different things from me. How do you manage different people's conflicting needs and making a life of your own all at the same time?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[What education do you need to become a neuropsychologist?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-389.html</link>
			<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 07:54:05 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I don't know if there is a difference in education between a psychologist and a neuropsychologist, but i would just like a simple quick list of what education is required to become a neuropsychologist, only. thank you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I don't know if there is a difference in education between a psychologist and a neuropsychologist, but i would just like a simple quick list of what education is required to become a neuropsychologist, only. thank you!]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Hi]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-388.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 20:16:50 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi, I've just joined today.<br />
<br />
I am an adult with Asperger's. My sister has autism and I think my brother may be on the spectrum as well. I'm a bit lost and looking for advice.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi, I've just joined today.<br />
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I am an adult with Asperger's. My sister has autism and I think my brother may be on the spectrum as well. I'm a bit lost and looking for advice.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[How can I help my son?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-387.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 12:40:44 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi,my son is 16,he was diagnosed with aspergers when he was 14.He does not think he has got it and does not like going to see anyone concerned with AS.We found out about a year ago that he had been meeting men off the internet and going to various hotels around the city to have sex with them.The police and social worker's are now involved in his life,he hates it.He has tried to take his own life 3 times luckily I caught him in time.He sometimes gets frustrated and violent towards myself and my husband.To the point that he has broken my ribs twice,assaulted his father numerous times.We have told him that we have no problem with him being gay,which he detests,as he says 'I'm not gay I'm bisexual'.He has no real friends,he hangs around with a couple of girls who take great joy in sometimes teasing him to the point of humiliation.My eldest son has moved out as he can't cope anymore.We had to have him under house arrest for his own safety,as he cannot see the danger of going off with strangers.We've tried to explained it,the police have tried,as have the social workers.To no avail.I had to take his phone off him,I've had to prevent him going on the internet (which is like his life support).The school are watchful of him,he's only just been let back on the computers there,as he'd been talking to men through different websites.Though he is not allowed the internet still as it is too risky.I don't know how to get through to him that that is not a way to meet someone for a relationship.Reading through the threads here,it is obvious we are all in the same boat in a way.We cannot get enough help to help our loved one's.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi,my son is 16,he was diagnosed with aspergers when he was 14.He does not think he has got it and does not like going to see anyone concerned with AS.We found out about a year ago that he had been meeting men off the internet and going to various hotels around the city to have sex with them.The police and social worker's are now involved in his life,he hates it.He has tried to take his own life 3 times luckily I caught him in time.He sometimes gets frustrated and violent towards myself and my husband.To the point that he has broken my ribs twice,assaulted his father numerous times.We have told him that we have no problem with him being gay,which he detests,as he says 'I'm not gay I'm bisexual'.He has no real friends,he hangs around with a couple of girls who take great joy in sometimes teasing him to the point of humiliation.My eldest son has moved out as he can't cope anymore.We had to have him under house arrest for his own safety,as he cannot see the danger of going off with strangers.We've tried to explained it,the police have tried,as have the social workers.To no avail.I had to take his phone off him,I've had to prevent him going on the internet (which is like his life support).The school are watchful of him,he's only just been let back on the computers there,as he'd been talking to men through different websites.Though he is not allowed the internet still as it is too risky.I don't know how to get through to him that that is not a way to meet someone for a relationship.Reading through the threads here,it is obvious we are all in the same boat in a way.We cannot get enough help to help our loved one's.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Interests]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-386.html</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 16:31:27 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I notice that I have an 'interests' section on my profile.  Which says "none".  I would like to change this to show people that I am not as boring as I seem.  However in the CP, there is no option (that I can see) to add to Interests.<br />
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Can someone tell me how to edit this section?<br />
<br />
Ta.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I notice that I have an 'interests' section on my profile.  Which says "none".  I would like to change this to show people that I am not as boring as I seem.  However in the CP, there is no option (that I can see) to add to Interests.<br />
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Can someone tell me how to edit this section?<br />
<br />
Ta.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Obsessions]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-385.html</link>
			<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 01:46:39 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[HI There, I have an eight year old son with Aspergers, in the past he has had mild obsessions that have lasted a few months but worryingly he keeps on going back to guns. He has about 8 toy guns already, I hoped that it would work it self out of his system but he keeps on wanting more. I have got to the stage where I am saying no to any more guns, and I am confronted with the tantrums and also opposition from my husband who thinks that he should have as many as he wants. I wouldn't worry so much but his play can be quite aggressive. Should I be saying no more or should I be supporting him in this ? Any ideas would be so gratefully appreciated.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[HI There, I have an eight year old son with Aspergers, in the past he has had mild obsessions that have lasted a few months but worryingly he keeps on going back to guns. He has about 8 toy guns already, I hoped that it would work it self out of his system but he keeps on wanting more. I have got to the stage where I am saying no to any more guns, and I am confronted with the tantrums and also opposition from my husband who thinks that he should have as many as he wants. I wouldn't worry so much but his play can be quite aggressive. Should I be saying no more or should I be supporting him in this ? Any ideas would be so gratefully appreciated.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Friends wanted!]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-383.html</link>
			<pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2010 13:12:58 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi,<br />
I'm Deniz and i'm 11. I'm looking for friends and penpals my age (roughly).<br />
I like sci-fi and disaster movies, particuarly Star Wars. I'm very lonely outside of school and need some one to talk to. Can anybody help?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi,<br />
I'm Deniz and i'm 11. I'm looking for friends and penpals my age (roughly).<br />
I like sci-fi and disaster movies, particuarly Star Wars. I'm very lonely outside of school and need some one to talk to. Can anybody help?]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[my result]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-381.html</link>
			<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 22:07:19 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ive been Professionally Diagnosed im 20 years old and i took the test :P<br />
<br />
Your Aspie score: 139 of 200<br />
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 52 of 200<br />
You are very likely an Aspie<br />
Your MBTI type: ISTJ<br />
<br />
<img src="http://www.rdos.net/eng/poly12c.php?p1=79&amp;p2=91&amp;p3=78&amp;p4=80&amp;p5=79&amp;p6=71&amp;p7=55&amp;p8=67&amp;p9=50&amp;p10=66&amp;p11=62&amp;p12=47" border="0" alt="[Image: poly12c.php?p1=79&amp;amp;p2=91&amp;amp;...poly12c.php?p1=79&amp;amp;p2=91&amp;amp;p3=78&amp;amp;p4=80&amp;amp;p5=79&amp;amp;p6=71&amp;amp;p7=55&amp;amp;p8=67&amp;amp;p9=50&amp;amp;p10=66&amp;amp;p11=62&amp;&#93;" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[ive been Professionally Diagnosed im 20 years old and i took the test :P<br />
<br />
Your Aspie score: 139 of 200<br />
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 52 of 200<br />
You are very likely an Aspie<br />
Your MBTI type: ISTJ<br />
<br />
<img src="http://www.rdos.net/eng/poly12c.php?p1=79&amp;p2=91&amp;p3=78&amp;p4=80&amp;p5=79&amp;p6=71&amp;p7=55&amp;p8=67&amp;p9=50&amp;p10=66&amp;p11=62&amp;p12=47" border="0" alt="[Image: poly12c.php?p1=79&amp;amp;p2=91&amp;amp;...poly12c.php?p1=79&amp;amp;p2=91&amp;amp;p3=78&amp;amp;p4=80&amp;amp;p5=79&amp;amp;p6=71&amp;amp;p7=55&amp;amp;p8=67&amp;amp;p9=50&amp;amp;p10=66&amp;amp;p11=62&amp;]" />]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[hello! another newbie!!]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-380.html</link>
			<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 22:09:21 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[Hi everyone,<br />
have just found your forum,,,lots of interesting reading! we are just starting the process of diagnosis(literally, at the very beginning of it all!), for my 8 year old son, and i'm just wondering if anyone can tell me what to expect? i've had an initial meeting with the doctor, and now myself and his teachers are filling in behaviour questionnaires...  Thats as far as we've got!<br />
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we live in torquay (me, hubby, 9yr old daughter and 8yr old son), so if anyone is nearby, pm me and lets get together!!<br />
<br />
take care all,<br />
amber.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hi everyone,<br />
have just found your forum,,,lots of interesting reading! we are just starting the process of diagnosis(literally, at the very beginning of it all!), for my 8 year old son, and i'm just wondering if anyone can tell me what to expect? i've had an initial meeting with the doctor, and now myself and his teachers are filling in behaviour questionnaires...  Thats as far as we've got!<br />
<br />
we live in torquay (me, hubby, 9yr old daughter and 8yr old son), so if anyone is nearby, pm me and lets get together!!<br />
<br />
take care all,<br />
amber.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Awaiting Diagnosis]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 14:48:15 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[How do you cope with other parents glares when you child hurts there child?Even if he doesn't mean too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[How do you cope with other parents glares when you child hurts there child?Even if he doesn't mean too.]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[HELP! We love him but hes driving our home mad]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 22:40:19 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[I dont know where to start except that our 11 year old Son, who has been diagnosed with Aspergers, is getting worse and worse, even now from week to week!<br />
 We adore our Son and will continue to TRY and do what we can for him at all times BUT .. He seems to do all he can to make everyone at his school, (one we have fought tooth and nail to get him into ... Successfully eventually!) dislike him!<br />
 We as his family love him dearly but he drives us to despair with his behaviour which most of the time seems SELFISH in the extreme. He is the last of four Sons and we have never seen this before. As such we are finding our usual 'persuasive' ways completely useless. We literally are beginning to despair.<br />
 I am his Dad and I sometimes cry alone.<br />
 I feel a bit of a 'sad case' in even writing all of this into an inanimate object like a PC .. but its starting to really wind us all up in our previously mainly happy and loving home.<br />
 I know that I am probrably wrong but I tend to blame his Mum for, as I tell her .. "Giving him all he wants at all times!" .. I just seem to think that traditional discipline would work, even though in my heart with him .. I sort of know it wont!?<br />
 I am not making sense here so what I should do is let my other half know that I have logged on, registered and tell her that she can maybe take up this whole thing.<br />
 He can be such a pain in the ....... ! BUT .. then in the beat of a heartbeat, he can then be the most wonderful and generous, and kind feeling little boy. God .. I get confused. SIGH ... !!!! <br />
Terry (Dad)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I dont know where to start except that our 11 year old Son, who has been diagnosed with Aspergers, is getting worse and worse, even now from week to week!<br />
 We adore our Son and will continue to TRY and do what we can for him at all times BUT .. He seems to do all he can to make everyone at his school, (one we have fought tooth and nail to get him into ... Successfully eventually!) dislike him!<br />
 We as his family love him dearly but he drives us to despair with his behaviour which most of the time seems SELFISH in the extreme. He is the last of four Sons and we have never seen this before. As such we are finding our usual 'persuasive' ways completely useless. We literally are beginning to despair.<br />
 I am his Dad and I sometimes cry alone.<br />
 I feel a bit of a 'sad case' in even writing all of this into an inanimate object like a PC .. but its starting to really wind us all up in our previously mainly happy and loving home.<br />
 I know that I am probrably wrong but I tend to blame his Mum for, as I tell her .. "Giving him all he wants at all times!" .. I just seem to think that traditional discipline would work, even though in my heart with him .. I sort of know it wont!?<br />
 I am not making sense here so what I should do is let my other half know that I have logged on, registered and tell her that she can maybe take up this whole thing.<br />
 He can be such a pain in the ....... ! BUT .. then in the beat of a heartbeat, he can then be the most wonderful and generous, and kind feeling little boy. God .. I get confused. SIGH ... !!!! <br />
Terry (Dad)]]></content:encoded>
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			<title><![CDATA[Is this an Aspergers trait?]]></title>
			<link>http://www.aspergerhelp.co.uk/forum/thread-376.html</link>
			<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 12:03:29 +0000</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[When I make a tune.... I found what helps me is to treat it like a piece of writing in English.... and to give it a beginning, middle and end..... like it is a story...<br />
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When I make a poem sometimes.... I'll use different fonts and colours &amp; an image or two... &amp; more so than a piece of writing, I feel like I am making a picture...<br />
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Wow... I'm 37 and it's taken me this long to realise this... to encapsulate this... &amp; it's no wonder that I always found interacting with the world so difficult...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[When I make a tune.... I found what helps me is to treat it like a piece of writing in English.... and to give it a beginning, middle and end..... like it is a story...<br />
<br />
When I make a poem sometimes.... I'll use different fonts and colours &amp; an image or two... &amp; more so than a piece of writing, I feel like I am making a picture...<br />
<br />
Wow... I'm 37 and it's taken me this long to realise this... to encapsulate this... &amp; it's no wonder that I always found interacting with the world so difficult...]]></content:encoded>
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