how to get a date

[honestlad42]

I'm finding it impossible to find a girl to go on a date with me. i get to know them and then all I ask is do you want to go out for lunch. But they say yes at first but then they change their minds. I do check if they are single because i don't chat to a girl who has a boyfriend.

I give roses teddy bears chocolates ask women what they enjoy ironically the women that rejected me went with men that didn't give them anything.

women like badboys and they have the assumption they change them. women take my advice you can never dowse a flame with petrol.

Then the heartbroken women when they realised they were cheated on or ignored say i wish i had a nice kind loving gentleman. I can't win!

I have given up but i don't want to end up old and alone left to rot and emotionally destroyed. I am gentle loving kind great personality and a real catch.

Any advice to help me?

oh well there is always clubbing!:partytime2:

[Gareth Roberts]

Hey there,

Dating is not an easy game to play, it's tricky to say the least. Especially trying to give advice because everyone is different, every girl is different.

Personally the best you can do is keep trying, don't look too hard as love comes when you least expect it.

Confidence is the key, but don't be over confident. You have to find the balance.

I know what your thinking, how do you do this? Well like everything, you need practice. Just get chatting to more girls.

You'll find that some girls won't give you the time of day... this is life and unfortunatly some girls are picky. Just move on and find people that do want to talk to you.

Don't rush the situation. You usually have to get to know someone a little bit before they feel like a relationship.

Good luck.