birthday

[alienhats]

Hi,
We will celebrate my son's birthday today, he is a huge fan of Ben 10, he is actually obsessed with it, he draws Ben 10 pictures for hours. I am new to this aspergers diagnosis, so I have tons of questions to ask. First of all, he totally freaked out this morning because he is afraid I will make the wrong cake. Then I will make wrong birthday for him and the day will become wrong he says. I am just so worried... I don't even want to bake a cake anymore, because I feel like he will find something wrong with it anyway... He doesn't want any friends at his birthday, actually he wants "friends", when I asked which friends he told me he wants his friends, and they are grandma grandpa, uncle...Also he says he won't open the "wrong" presents. I am worried and a little sad.. any suggestions?